My Name Is Foluke, i am 31, Single and not Happy, I Live In Lagos I am not Lucky finding the right one , Men Hardly look at me talk more ask me out!
Pls i need Help! Is something wrong with me? I am Beautiful, Tall , Chubby, i have my own Thriving Business, i am tired of loneliness and Pressure from my parents and the mockery from my Environment.
When i hangout or go to Party with my friend, 3 or 4 guys will be asking for her Number but no one looks at me twice, i am even more Beautiful than she is. I am so worried!! I understand Self love and i love Myself but why am i not in a relationship at 31??
I am a very funny extrovert!
I’m just tired!
I don’t mind Hook up with a responsible guy that is ready for marriage,
pls Help 🙏 I Just want to feel loved and get married!
Sorry for the ordeal you go through Foluke, I want to let you know that it’s not the number of “men asking you out” that determines your chances of getting married, but having the right man for you and that connects with you. Someone you both need to understand each other. You can be under pressure to have a relationship or find love, but later regret it.
I advice you not to rush any, keep up the good works you do, you shall be spotted. Don’t know your faith, but you can as well put it to God in prayers.
If you care to have a call….
Baby girl, it’s not a big deal that you’re over 30 and unmarried. There are many virgins like that. Live your life, your man will come. May I advise though that you draw close to God. Read books on marriage and relationships. Lastly, continue to build your empire.
Foluke, I really think you should stop worrying about this particular aspect of your life and work hard to fix your spiritual life.
This may sound strange to you, but please, start by intentionally asking your creator to lead you to your spouse.
Also, I think you should consider filtering your circle of friends. Dress beautifully well and smell nice always. I am not saying you should wear heavy makeup, what I mean is, you should look good effortlessly.
From time to time, learn to hangout in decent pubs alone, without the company of your friends. Don’t worry, you will find your man in no time.
YOU ARE BLESSED MY DEAR SISTER!
My dear pray to God to reveal to you because it is possible that you might not understand why, but you dream some kind dreams that you can’t remember, because of your spirit husband who don’t want any man to come to you therefore you need prayers to overcome it. You might think is a lie because most times when you want to do something very important in your life you simply forget it.