Hello good evening my name is Chioma I’m married with 3kids,pls I need an advice on this matter cause at this rate I don’t know what to do,I’m depressed and I have no one to run to. 2021 my parents were having issues with their rent and my husband has refused to help them with the rent so I borrowed money to pay it off so they wont be thrown to the street with hope that the little money I get from my dropshipping business I will use it to pay it back but my business started slowly down I couldn’t pay it back and my husband doesn’t give me money I was helpless,I didn’t know what to do so I borrowed money again to pay it off,since i couldn’t pay that one and since then till date I’ve been borrowing money from different platforms to pay back now the money I’m owing is almost a million now,I don’t know what to do and I don’t know how to tell my husband cos he will kill me if he finds out…that man will deal with me if he finds out,I’m helpless, atimes I even start thinking if I should kill myself,this money I didn’t eat 1kobo from it but it’s about to end me.i don’t know what to do pls I need your help and advice thank you.
Hello Chioma, this is very sad to read, as I totally understand what you are going through. I have been in debt before and trust me, it is not what you wish for even an enemy.
I will urge you to discuss this with your husband, since you already know 2 good heads are better than one, yes, he may get pissed and angry, but if he is a caring husband, he would eventually come around and both of you can think of a way to gradually pay the debt.
Suicide shouldn’t be an option please, think about your kids, they need to grow up with their mother. Being in debt is not the end of the world, discuss with your husband and please, don’t ever keep such things away from him anymore. He may get angry, but it is always important your discuss such important matters with him as a spouse and family.
I would also advice you talk to relatives and friends that can be of help. All will be well soon, please, STOP CONSIDERING SUICIDE.
Hello Chioma, this is very sad to read, as I totally understand what you are going through. I have been in debt before and trust me, it is not what you wish for even an enemy.
I will urge you to discuss this with your husband, since you already know 2 good heads are better than one, yes, he may get pissed and angry, but if he is a caring husband, he would eventually come around and both of you can think of a way to gradually pay the debt.
Suicide shouldn’t be an option please, think about your kids, they need to grow up with their mother. Being in debt is not the end of the world, discuss with your husband and please, don’t ever keep such things away from him anymore. He may get angry, but it is always important your discuss such important matters with him as a spouse and family.
I would also advice you talk to relatives and friends that can be of help. All will be well soon, please, STOP CONSIDERING SUICIDE.