I have been dating my man for about 3 years now, we are both matured people, so we are actually not in this relationship for marriage. He is in his late 50s while I am in my late 40s…both of us are divorced.
When we started, it was all fun and sex all the time. Sometimes, we can have it 3 to 4 times in a day. Which I thought was really intense and understanding, since we don’t see each other all the time. (we see each other every 2 weeks, due to our busy schedule).
Recently, I realized I am not as interested in having sex with him as I used to, the Interest is gone. I travelled and was away for about 3 Months, funny enough, while I was away, I missed his company and wanted to spend so much time with him, but when I got back and went to see him, I suddenly lost interest in having sex with him.
I know you would want to wonder if I still care about him, YES, I do care about him more than words can explain, but I am not just interested in sex these days. I have never cheated on him and so it is not me seeing someone else that is the issue here, it is just that I can’t do sex as it is with him.
He is beginning to worry and ask questions, I honestly don’t know what to say to him. I do care about him, but I just want to abstain from intimacy for the time being
Is something wrong with me? I need someone to talk to me please…
You are perfection healthy….It happens
I don’t think that anything is wrong with you, I think you both should discuss it in a mature way. While communicating, you might get to know the reason why, and discuss ways to help you regain your interest.
If you think it’s worth it, you could also see a counselor (or sexologist) about it.