I have been dating my man for about 3 years now, we are both matured people, so we are actually not in this relationship for marriage. He is in his late 50s while I am in my late 40s…both of us are divorced.

When we started, it was all fun and sex all the time. Sometimes, we can have it 3 to 4 times in a day. Which I thought was really intense and understanding, since we don’t see each other all the time. (we see each other every 2 weeks, due to our busy schedule).

Recently, I realized I am not as interested in having sex with him as I used to, the Interest is gone. I travelled and was away for about 3 Months, funny enough, while I was away, I missed his company and wanted to spend so much time with him, but when I got back and went to see him, I suddenly lost interest in having sex with him.

I know you would want to wonder if I still care about him, YES, I do care about him more than words can explain, but I am not just interested in sex these days. I have never cheated on him and so it is not me seeing someone else that is the issue here, it is just that I can’t do sex as it is with him.

He is beginning to worry and ask questions, I honestly don’t know what to say to him. I do care about him, but I just want to abstain from intimacy for the time being

Is something wrong with me? I need someone to talk to me please…

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